As a teacher I have high standards for my students. I push them, I expect them to push themselves, but I love them a lot too. Since I became a mom I realized that more than anything I want that for my boys too. I want someone else to see Chance's kind heart, his silly nature, and his creative spirit. I want someone to notice how cuddly Caiden is, how he wants to make everything ok, and how much he likes to help others. Yes, I have BOYS. Yes, I know they are wiggly, and sometimes forget to listen their best. I wish those outsiders would understand all of this and still love them. I never want to break their spirit. I want them to grow into strong, kind young men.
I am a working mom, and like most working moms I have a guilty heart. For all of those teachers, care takers, and anyone else who interacts with a child or their family out there, can I offer you a thought? What if you took the time to share a kind word or positive story that showed us mommas that our babies are truly appreciated and valued. I can't tell you how good that would make me feel. I can't tell you how proud I'd be to know my boys were doing good without mom at their side.
Raising these kiddos in this world today, it's so good to know our most prized possessions are treasured and appreciated by others too. I challenge all of you to take a second and share a positive word, even if it's easier to share a negative. You'd be amazed at the difference it would make.
